Bullycide

A few years ago, the term “bullycide” did not exist.  However with the alarming number of kids killing themselves due to the cruelty of bullying, it was created.  In the last few weeks, it has been re-enforced.    

In Ridge Farm, Illinois, Ashlyn Conner was “tormented” by her classmates.  She was being called “fat” and a “slut” even though she was a beautiful child.  She had a bright smile and was a cheerleader.  The night before her death, she reportedly asked her mother if she could be home schooled because she was terrified of returning to her school.  The mother told her no and when she woke up the next morning, her daughter had killed herself by hanging herself with a scarf. 

In Chadbourn, North Carolina, Jasmine McClain hung herself with a belt after repeated bullying at school.  She was teased about her clothes and her shoes and she also dreaded returning to school.  Investigators further learned of her bullying through Facebook.  In every parent’s worst nightmare, her mother found her and Jasmine took her final breath in her mother’s arms. 

On April 20, 1999, there were 13 homicide and 2 bullycide victims at Columbine High School.  International news stations covered the events.  Books have been written, programs have been developed, and legislation has been passed based on the events of that day.  Sadly, in the case of these young girls and the majority of these young victims, their stories go untold. 

May their families find peace. 

Ashlyn Conner story can be read here

Jasmine McClain story can be read here