One of the most successul ways for a parent to ensure their child does not become part of a gang is for the parent to be an active participant in their child's school. In the elementary school years, parents are always present. PTA meetings are filled with parents and cameras waiting to watch a presentation (usually musical) after the meeting. Parents are there to pick up their kids and speak with teachers. When middle school comes, many parents lose the connection to their kid's schools. They suddenly become too busy or they want to allow their child to be independent. Children often join gangs because they are missing a "family" feeling in their home, and they are joining them in middle school. Having a parent involved in their school activities is a big part of that. Here are a few quick tips for anyone wanting to get more involved;
- Know your child's teacher and exchange contact information, including email
- Know your child's schedule
- Attend open house, meet the teacher, and PTA evening events
- Have lunch with your child at school several times a year
- Know your child's friends
- Support your child by attending trips, sporting events, and school activities they are a part of
- Know where your child goes after school and randomly visit or watch him/her walk their route
The brief moments of embarassment your child may suffer are far less severe than the negative implications of letting them go.
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